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      <title><![CDATA[Here's how 3 of the LPGA's top players are spending Thanksgiving]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>On this Thanksgiving unlike any other, Minjee Lee, Brittany Lincicome and Ally McDonald dish on their plans for Turkey Day.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On this Thanksgiving unlike any other, Minjee Lee, Brittany Lincicome and Ally McDonald dish on their plans for Turkey Day.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On this Thanksgiving unlike any other, Minjee Lee, Brittany Lincicome and Ally McDonald dish on their plans for Turkey Day.</p>
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<html><body><p class="first">The Covid-19 pandemic has upended our lives for the last nine-plus months, and LPGA players are no exception. With the holidays at last upon us, three of the top players in the women&rsquo;s game shared their Thanksgiving plans with the<a href="https://lpgawomensnetwork.com/how-lpga-players-celebrate-the-holidays/?mc_cid=52100dca1f&amp;mc_eid=f173da4bfd"> LPGA Women&rsquo;s Network</a>.</p>



<p>For World No. 8 Minjee Lee, an Australian, this year&rsquo;s holiday will be a first in a couple of different ways. &ldquo;I&rsquo;ve never really been in the U.S. for Thanksgiving, so this will be my first time,&rdquo; she <a href="https://lpgawomensnetwork.com/how-lpga-players-celebrate-the-holidays/?mc_cid=52100dca1f&amp;mc_eid=f173da4bfd">said</a>. &ldquo;I think I&rsquo;m going to have Thanksgiving with my housing in Texas; they&rsquo;re like my away-from-home parents. I don&rsquo;t think we have an equivalent in Australia. There&rsquo;s a Korean Thanksgiving. All the food that they make for that time of the year is, like, amazing. I love it.&rdquo;</p>





<p>Two-time major winner Brittany Lincicome is looking forward to a non-traditional Thanksgiving Day entree &mdash; her mom&rsquo;s meatloaf.</p>



<p>&ldquo;My favorite Thanksgiving food is the corn casserole. It&rsquo;s like this cornbread kind of thing,&rdquo; Lincicome told the LPGA Women&rsquo;s Network. &ldquo;It&rsquo;s delicious! This year, since my mom is cooking, she&rsquo;s adding a meatloaf to it. I freaking love my mom&rsquo;s meatloaf, so we&rsquo;re going to do the traditional turkey and ham, but she&rsquo;s going to add a small meatloaf in there for me.&rdquo;</p>


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<p>LPGA Drive On champion Ally McDonald enjoys a double Thanksgiving with her family. &ldquo;We do lunch with my mom&rsquo;s side of the family, dinner with my dad&rsquo;s side of the family, and that&rsquo;s just kind of been what we&rsquo;ve always done,&rdquo; she <a href="https://lpgawomensnetwork.com/how-lpga-players-celebrate-the-holidays/?mc_cid=52100dca1f&amp;mc_eid=f173da4bfd">said</a>. &ldquo;One thing I&rsquo;m really adamant about is no Christmas music until after Thanksgiving. It has to be post-Thanksgiving for me to listen to Christmas music. I&rsquo;m just enjoying Thanksgiving and the holiday I celebrate with my family. I don&rsquo;t want to bypass it and go straight to Christmas.&rdquo;</p>



<p>Despite the many different ways these players plan on celebrating Thanksgiving, they all share one thing in common: it sounds like they&rsquo;ll be eating <em>very</em> well. </p>


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      <title><![CDATA[Dear Golf: A word of thanks to the game that shaped me and saved me]]></title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>I have my reasons to be thankful for golf, and you have yours. Today — in this home-for-the-holidays season — is as good as any to dust off that list.</p>
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<html><body><p class="first">I often take a slide on the Monday after the tournaments I cover. For instance, on the Monday after <a href="https://golf.com/news/dustin-johnson-champion-unlike-any-other-masters/">this year&rsquo;s Masters</a>, I went for a longish jog in downtown Augusta in the morning and, in the afternoon, played the old-timey public course in Aiken, S.C., across the Savannah River and 15 miles away to the north and east on U.S. 1.</p>



<p>After golf, and supper at the Pizza Joint in Aiken, I started the drive home, to Philadelphia, with a plan to stop somewhere. You don&rsquo;t need a reservation these days. The hotels are wide open.</p>



<p>Around 8 that night, while heading eastbound on I-20, I called <a href="https://golf.com/news/sam-reeves-is-a-retired-cotton-merchant-bodysurfer-pro-am-partner-and-one-of-golfs-trusted-old-souls/">Sam Reeves</a>. Sam is a friend through golf. That is, golf was our starting point. Sam&rsquo;s not ordinary. He casually said to me once, &ldquo;Human potential is undervalued.&rdquo; As an investor, Sam is loading up on humankind. He&rsquo;s 86 and weirdly young for his age. He can still break 80 and that&rsquo;s the least of it.</p>


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<p>&ldquo;What you doing?&rdquo; Sam asked.</p>



<p>He grew up in rural Georgia and you can tell.&nbsp;</p>



<p>&ldquo;Driving home from Augusta,&rdquo; I said.</p>



<p>&ldquo;That tournament ended&nbsp;<em>weeks</em>&nbsp;ago,&rdquo; Sam said.&nbsp;</p>



<p>Well, a day and change ago, anyway. But Sam had made his point.&nbsp;<em>Don&rsquo;t you have places to be?</em>&nbsp;</p>



<p>Not really.</p>



<p>Here&rsquo;s another post-tournament Monday, the one following the 2015 Players Championship, in Ponte Vedra Beach, in North Florida. On that day, I was looking to do an open-water swim. I could tell you I was &ldquo;in training&rdquo; but that would give you the wrong idea. The triathlon I was preparing to do, and had done a half-dozen times before, consisted of a one-mile swim, not even, downstream in a city river. A 25-mile bike ride with a few hills. A dead flat six-mile run &mdash; or should I say jog? You get the idea.</p>



<p>I did a Google consult for swimming beaches in the vicinity of St. Augustine, where I was staying, down the road from TPC Sawgrass. I pointed my Hertz rental south to an inlet beach, part of a state park, and turned right into a parking lot, paved and sign-posted and family-friendly. I&rsquo;ve debated telling you this next thing but here goes: My heart is racing, as I type up this part. I know what&rsquo;s coming.</p>



<p>The parking lot, with its neatly painted lines, was on a sliver of land that separated the Atlantic Ocean from a body of water unknown to me called the Matanzas Inlet. I walked the elevated boardwalk on a summery day from the parking lot to the inlet. The narrow beach there did not have any lifeguards but the inlet was calm and flat and there were young kids wading by the shore, their parents nearby.</p>


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<p>Across the inlet, maybe a quarter-mile to the west, was an untamed island with its own beach. I saw it, and a bell went off. It was like my inner explorer was suddenly called to the plate. We humans like destinations, don&rsquo;t we? Anybody who has made the mecca trip to the Old Course has experienced this: You head out, make the turn, play on home. In other words, golf is not just a cross-country game, it&rsquo;s a&nbsp;<em>destination</em>&nbsp;game. My vague plan (a specialty) was to swim across the inlet, check out the island, swim on back. Five or 10 strokes in and I was past the kids. Gilligan&rsquo;s Island beckoned.</p>



<p>The water was warm.</p>



<p>The sun was high.</p>



<p><strong>***</strong></p>



<p>Sam Reeves, Sam Rogers, Sam Snead. Sam Rogers is the son of friends and he&rsquo;s logged a lot of rounds at the Philadelphia Cricket Club, where I play, as a golfer and as a caddie. Great kid now in law school, who, like his father before him, will likely pursue justice and golf for the rest of his life. Sam Reeves you&rsquo;ve met. As for Sam Snead, I once beat him out of $100 at the Greenbrier. He was 82 and gave me four a side and I played my bottom off.</p>



<p>The people you meet in this game! It&rsquo;s probably dangerous to even go down this road. Incautiously, I proceed. I nod here to just some of the editors I have met through my golf typing, wordsmiths who have enriched my life immeasurably. Al and Alan. Bill Eddins, formerly of the Bala Golf Club and also the&nbsp;<em>Philadelphia Inquirer</em>. Jim H. at&nbsp;<em>SI</em>&nbsp;and Jofie F-A at S&amp;S. David I &amp; David II. Some others. Last names mostly omitted here to encourage you in your own at-home version of&nbsp;<em>This Is Your Life</em>. Your Al, your Alan, your Bill, your Jim, your David I and David II. Good luck finding a Jofie.</p>



<p>I just looked up Al. Al Silverman. He was not a golfer but he edited and published one of my golf books (<em>To the Linksland</em>&nbsp;in &rsquo;91)&nbsp;with so much insight. He died last year at 92 and was the subject of a wonderful obit in the&nbsp;<em>New York Times</em>.&nbsp;Al edited Saul Bellow and William Kennedy and was Gale Sayers&rsquo; ghostwriter.&nbsp;<em>I am Third</em>.&nbsp;(&ldquo;The Lord is first, my friends are second, and I am third.&rdquo;) Al was a giant. It was mostly luck that he bothered with me at all but he did like the idea of newlyweds in Scotland, no mortgage, no kids, no itinerary, on a golf bender. I failed to keep tabs on him. It hurts but I can&rsquo;t undo it.&nbsp;</p>



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<p>I know, 45 years in, this gratitude walk won&rsquo;t leave even a footprint on a rhetorical dune, but I continue anyhow: Eddins introduced me to Bob and Bob introduced me to Tom and Tom introduced me to Jay. As for Jay &mdash; he&rsquo;s a super-connector. Plus, of course, the wives. Dinner for four, for six, for eight. A christening, a bris. Weddings, birthdays, funerals. We all know how it is.&nbsp;</p>



<p>I caddied for Brad Faxon at the Honda tournament in &rsquo;85 and he was paired with Mike Donald for the first two rounds and Mike has become one of my closest friends. Mike recently sent me, by mail, a handwritten list of the courses we&rsquo;ve played together. The Jacksonville Beach muni is on it and so is Augusta National.</p>


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<p>Bert (or a reader named Bertis, as he was then) wrote a letter, more than 25 years ago, and that missive opened up whole worlds. More recently, in a rented house in Birkdale just a few summers ago, Bert and I and some others founded a&nbsp;<em>very</em>&nbsp;selective artisans society, doing business now as The Pros from Dover. You may know the refrain from our anthem:&nbsp;<em>We&rsquo;re comin&rsquo; to your town, we&rsquo;ll help you</em>&mdash;</p>



<p>Golfers write letters. (Email gets full credit.) A typed letter I wrote 30 years ago to a Yale-educated touring pro named Peter Teravainen changed the course of my life. I can draw a line from Peter Teravainen, now of Singapore, to Peter Alliss of England to John Stark of Scotland. Stark opened, solely for my benefit, the cattle gates to a remote Highlands course called Auchnafree. Bill Campbell and <a href="https://golf.com/news/remembering-sandy-tatum-a-golf-ambassador-with-an-unadulterated-love-of-the-game/">Sandy Tatum</a> found their own way there and reported their findings to me. RIP, Mr. Stark, Mr. Campbell, Mr. Tatum.</p>



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<p>Rest in peace, <a href="https://golf.com/news/legendary-golf-writer-jim-finegan-passes-away-at-85/">Jim Finegan</a>, <a href="https://golf.com/news/features/the-partner-some-golf-mates-come-go-others-never-leave-you/">Fred Anton</a>. Jim died while planning one more trip to Scotland, and he made dozens of them. As for Fred: My friend Neil knocked one on from 175ish the other day and as he marched to the green, putter in hand, I cited Fred. Neil likely knew it:&nbsp;<em>The long proud walk</em>!&nbsp;Neil, for some reason, loses track of Jaime&rsquo;s contact information. It pleases me, to be the Neil-Jaime middleman. You play that role for somebody, don&rsquo;t you?</p>



<p>Herb Wind, Dan Jenkins, Dave Anderson: knew him, knew him a little, knew him well. A priest, a comic, a prince. Michael Murphy, newly 90, still kicking. Shivas Irons (Murphy&rsquo;s timeless invention) said to his spoon, &ldquo;Thank ye kindly.&rdquo; A very great sentence.</p>


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<p>To this whole aforementioned gang and to (literally) innumerable others:&nbsp;<em>Thank ye kindly</em>.&nbsp;To a truck-driver opponent in some match somewhere who told me how he was saving for a husband-and-wife trip to Pebble Beach: Thank you kindly. Your comment settled deep within me. To all manner of spectators, caddies, players, rules officials, press-tent friends and colleagues, to all the many people who have shared this with me and shared that: thank you kindly. My undying thanks.</p>



<p>This odd game, with its unexpected joys. The people drawn to it. Nick Petrillo, head pro at Bellport, dancing with his wife, in their shop, summer of &rsquo;75.</p>



<p><strong>***</strong></p>



<p>The water was warm, the sun was high, the swim was easy, until it wasn&rsquo;t.</p>



<p>I could see my little destination island, about which I knew nothing. I was within 30 feet of it. But I could also feel a strong northbound current underneath me. I couldn&rsquo;t see the current, but it felt like I was hitting an underwater wall. I thought about trying to power my way through the current and to the beach, the very thing that you&rsquo;re not supposed to try to do. But the beach was so close and it looked like salvation. Swimming back to where I had started was not an option. Letting the current do with me as it wished did not strike me as an option, either, in large part because I did not know the waters. (An open-water swimming PSA, of a sort:&nbsp;<em>always</em>&nbsp;know your waters.)</p>



<p>I had two semi-cogent thoughts. The first was that if I tried to power my way through the current and didn&rsquo;t have the strength to do it, what could potentially doom me was not the inlet&rsquo;s current but my own panic. A panicking swimmer doesn&rsquo;t breathe.</p>



<p>My second cogent thought was this: There was a white-hulled cabin cruiser, long and tall, maybe 200 yards north, downstream from me, in the middle of the inlet. My guess was that it was drifting with the current, too. It was a beautiful afternoon for boating, for fishing, for drifting. No day is a good one to drown.</p>



<p>I began swimming toward the boat. It wasn&rsquo;t like I had a lot of options. Who would be on board, if anybody at all, I, of course, could not know. What I needed was a lifeline and not the kind you call on a game show.</p>



<p><strong>***</strong></p>



<p>Borrowed, with gratitude, from &ldquo;I Thank You,&rdquo; as Sam &amp; Dave belted it out in the original version (Stax/Atlantic, 1968):<br />&nbsp;<em><br />You didn&rsquo;t have to shake me like you did but you did but you did and I thank you</em></p>



<p><em><strong>Shouting out to Mr. Greenlee!</strong></em></p>



<p>Middle-school gym teacher, who decided to teach, as an elective, beginner golf to a collection of eighth-graders who didn&rsquo;t know a wedge from a 1-iron, thereby turning a hardwood basketball court into (literally and otherwise) a launching pad. Third marking period, 1974.</p>



<p><em><strong>Yo, Sam &ldquo;Killer&rdquo; Foy!</strong></em></p>



<p>Late, great pro-circuit caddie and former boxer, who gave a half-assed aspiring touring caddie, on the date below, a (figurative) map of Las Vegas while standing on a practice green in New Orleans, thereby showing once again the power of kindness. March 15, 1985.<br />&nbsp;<br /><em><strong>Dear Chriski!</strong></em></p>



<p>(Her first-car California license plate.) Spirited bride, married on the date noted below on Shelter Island, N.Y., who thought having her husband caddie across Europe in their first year of marriage&nbsp;<em>was a</em> <em>good idea</em>.&nbsp;Oct. 28, 1990.<br />&nbsp;<br /><em><strong>Calling Mickey Wright!</strong></em></p>



<p>Iconic, camera-shy golfer and perfectionist, who allowed this reporter repeated access to her experiences, insights and mind, through a series of phone calls and letters, for a 20-year period, concluding with her death on this date. Feb. 17, 2020.</p>



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<p>I could go on, but you get the idea. I have my roster and you have yours. Today &mdash; this Blursday, in this pandemic, in this home-for-the-holidays season &mdash; is as good as any to dust it off. Of course, any day is a good one to dust it off, to read &ldquo;Our Town,&rdquo; to sing, as Sam &amp; Dave did so nobly, thanks for the shake. Thank ye kindly.</p>



<p>***</p>



<p>When I got near the boat, on that Monday after the Players Championship, I could see that there was an anchor chain coming off its bow (its front), which was pointed due south, into the current. I grabbed on to the anchor chain and called out for help. In my mind, I wasn&rsquo;t panicking, but I am dubious about the quality of my own testimony, at that exact moment. I can say with certainty that there were two people on board, a husband and a wife named Bob and Christy Garces. As witnesses, you would have to consider them far more reliable than I.</p>



<p>***</p>



<p>I spoke to Bob at length in late October. Christine and I were in Richmond for our 30th wedding anniversary. We had planned to go there in April, after the Masters, but there was no Masters in April. I have told Christine for years how much I like Richmond, sometimes stopping there when I drive to Augusta. It&rsquo;s an interesting city. One thing you can do there is visit the Jefferson Hotel, where &ldquo;My Dinner with Andre&rdquo; was shot.</p>



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<p>When we spoke, Bob was in Key Largo, south of Miami, where he&rsquo;s the commodore of the Ocean Reef Yacht Club. Between his boating and his fishing and his golfing, plus the call of family life, Bob&rsquo;s a busy retiree. (He started and sold businesses related to hospital administration.) Seventy is the new 50, right? He summarized one recent all-day fishing trip thusly: &ldquo;Three nice groupers and a sailfish.&rdquo; Assessing his golf game, he spoke for many of us: &ldquo;I&rsquo;m just a hacker trying to stay out of the woods.&rdquo; His boat, on that Monday after the Players Championship, anchored in the middle of the Matanzas Inlet, was called&nbsp;<em>Bikini Blues</em>. It recently left the family, by way of sale, after a new boat came in,&nbsp;<em>Slice of Life</em>. That&rsquo;s a good boat name for a golf-playing boat owner, to be sure, but it can&rsquo;t touch the undisputed leader in that category:&nbsp;<em>Off Course.</em></p>



<p>I asked Capt. Bob what he remembered from our Monday in May, five-plus years ago, when I showed up at his bow.</p>



<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ve told the story to all my buddies &mdash; I&rsquo;ve told it a thousand times!&rdquo; Bob said cheerfully, not wearily. And then he painted for me the story&rsquo;s opening scene: &ldquo;There was this person hanging on our anchor chain. He was wet and beat-up looking. You ask yourself: What kind of nut-job is going to swim in a current like that? He didn&rsquo;t look like somebody you would want hanging on your anchor chain.&rdquo;</p>



<p>No, you wouldn&rsquo;t. I was wearing, on that Monday, the kind of swimsuit you might find at Marshalls, and nothing else. There was no white zinc oxide goop on my nose. I wasn&rsquo;t wearing an easy-to-see brightly-colored swim cap or a UPF 50+ swim shirt. I didn&rsquo;t have goggles or footwear. I was just a guy in his mid-50s in an inlet, wearing a here-comes-dad bathing suit, hanging on a stranger&rsquo;s anchor chain.</p>



<p>Bob and Christy had only recently dropped anchor there. They&rsquo;re avid boaters. They have condos in Key Largo and Jacksonville Beach and enjoy taking their boat north and south in between the two, either in the Atlantic or in her long, often-friendly neighbor, the Intracoastal Waterway, and its attendant inlets and estuaries. <em>Bikini Blues</em> was a 40-foot cabin cruiser with an exceedingly tall bridge and most of the comforts of home. Bob and Christy, after dropping anchor on that Monday afternoon, had set themselves up on the <em>Bikini&rsquo;s</em> aft deck. It was an unusually warm day for mid-May in northern Florida. &ldquo;We were about to crack open a couple of beers,&rdquo; Bob told me, &ldquo;when we heard somebody yell for help.&rdquo;</p>



<p>As we spoke, Bob consulted a chart, to jog his own memory and to give me the lay of the land and its waterways. I had parked my rental car, we determined, in the Matanzas Inlet West Parking Lot, near the southernmost part of a barrier-beach peninsula. At the very bottom of the peninsula there was (and there is) a wide cut, an opening that connects the Atlantic Ocean to the Matanzas Inlet.&nbsp;</p>



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<p>&ldquo;When the tide changes and the ocean starts pouring into that inlet, you can get a serious current, maybe four or five miles an hour, as you would know better than I do,&rdquo; Bob said. &ldquo;It was ripping. If you had tried to swim through the current to the beach, I doubt you would have made it. If you had, you probably would have got yourself all cut up on the oysters that line the shore there.&rdquo; This was not information gleaned off a website. This was Bob&rsquo;s life experience speaking.</p>



<p>***</p>



<p>Bob&rsquo;s father, Tavi Garces, loved the water, too. He was born in Cuba in 1919 and came to the United States with his family in 1932 and graduated a decade later from the University of Florida, where he was a swimmer. He was, for decades, the athletic director at the Bolles School, a private school in Jacksonville. Bob went there himself. Tavi Garces also founded a summer camp, Camp Tomahawk, where generations of Florida kids spent their summers, paddling canoes, swimming in lakes, water skiing behind noisy engines. Bob went to the camp and worked there as a camp counselor.</p>



<p>Maybe you have heard of the Bolles School. It has many famous graduates, including the baseball Hall of Famer Chipper Jones, about whom I have written several long pieces. Bob swam at Bolles and later at Clemson, from which he graduated in 1971. Clemson remains a big part of his life. I&rsquo;ve been to Clemson only once, in 2011, to write about Dabo Swinney, the Clemson football coach. Coach Swinney allowed me in the locker room after a Tiger smackdown of North Carolina. &ldquo;Boogie Shoes&rdquo; was blaring and Swinney danced with his players like a man on fire. Bob and I, in our late-October phone conversation, compared notes about Chipper and Dabo and Bolles and Clemson. On that Monday, five-plus years ago, none of that came up.</p>



<p>***</p>



<p>&ldquo;When you began your swim, the tide had to be out, there was no current and it&rsquo;s easy to get lulled into a false sense of security,&rdquo; Bob said. Then everything flipped. The power of water.</p>



<p>&ldquo;We heard you before we saw you,&rdquo; Bob said. &ldquo;I have to admit, for about a minute, I didn&rsquo;t know what to do.&rdquo;</p>



<p>Bob described how he threw me a 35-foot line and I grabbed it. He led me down the starboard side of the <em>Bikini</em>, along her tall white hull, to a swimming and diving platform at the stern.&nbsp;</p>



<p>&ldquo;You were totally exhausted,&rdquo; Bob said. He wasn&rsquo;t being kind or unkind, just matter-of-fact.</p>



<p><em>Exhausted.&nbsp;</em>The word itself is tiring. All those heavy consonants. It&rsquo;s not a word people tend to use casually. Bob, I&rsquo;m sure, was not.</p>



<p>***</p>



<p>A few days later I spoke to Christy Garces by phone. Christine and I had returned home to Philadelphia. Christy was with Bob in Florida. That statement would be true almost anytime over the past 55 years or so. They met in the 1960s, when they were in their respective high schools, in Jacksonville. She and Bob married in 1970. They have two children and seven grandchildren.</p>



<p>Christy described how, elsewhere on the Matanzas Inlet on that Monday afternoon, there were kids on the beach, playing in the shallow water. There was nothing threatening about the day, beyond the oddness at her boat.</p>



<p>&ldquo;The thought did cross my mind, that you could be a serial-killer, but that probably you were not,&rdquo; Christy told me. Statistical probability. She had studied math at Emory.</p>



<p>&ldquo;Bob threw you that line and you were hesitant to let go of the anchor chain,&rdquo; Christy said. I don&rsquo;t remember that and don&rsquo;t doubt it for a second.</p>



<p>&ldquo;We should have thrown you a lifejacket but hindsight is 20-20, isn&rsquo;t it?&rdquo; It is.</p>



<p>This next part I do remember. When Bob led me to the stern, and to the diving platform, the long line sunk in the water and got caught on a propeller. I am someone, like a lot of people, who needs to fix the problems I create. I got on deck and Christy gave me a water bottle. I know we talked briefly about the Players Championship I had just covered and they had just watched. (That was about the best credential I had just then &mdash; if it was believable at all.) I then went back in the water, without hesitation, to try to untangle the line from the propeller.</p>



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<p>I couldn&rsquo;t believe how deep the propeller was, and how strong the current was. With great reluctance, I gave up.</p>



<p>Christy said they had a service called BoatUS that they would call. It was like roadside service for AAA members, but for boaters. Naturally, my discomfort only deepened. What more could I do to inconvenience these nice people?</p>



<p>A motor boat, maybe half the size of <em>Bikini Blues</em>, came by. Bob, without any fanfare, waved it over and asked its helmsman if he could bring me to shore. The kindness of strangers.</p>



<p><em>The highest form of wisdom is kindness.&nbsp;</em>A sentence as wise as it is ancient. It can be difficult, to accept the kindness of others. But two things about that. The first is, at times you have no choice. Also, people like to give. It makes them feel good. It makes the world go &lsquo;round. Give it and accept it. It&rsquo;s not complicated.</p>



<p>***</p>



<p>Bob and Christy had started that day, on their boat, in New Smyrna Beach, where, it happens, Slugger White, the legendary rules official, and Jim &ldquo;Bones&rdquo; Mackay, the caddie, grew up. I&rsquo;ve played the public course there, said to be the last one Donald Ross designed, likely on my way to or from TPC Sawgrass. In the 1970s, in New Smyrna Beach, Slugger and his buddies had a triathlon all their own: golf followed by bowling followed by billiards. They&rsquo;d hydrate with beer, and nobody ever got hurt.</p>



<p>&ldquo;We were thinking of spending the night there,&rdquo; Christy told me. Her&nbsp;<em>there&nbsp;</em>was the middle of the Matanzas Inlet, in a setting unchanged by 500 years of civilization. &ldquo;But we decided against it &mdash; it was too windy.&rdquo;</p>



<p>BoatUS arrived with a diver who got the line free. &ldquo;It cost us maybe an hour or two,&rdquo; she said, without even a hint of complaint. Bob and Christy motored their way to the civility of St. Augustine, got there before sunset and spent the night there, on their boat. St. Augustine is a neat town. I&rsquo;ve logged a lot of nights there.&nbsp;</p>



<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ve thought a lot about that day we met,&rdquo; Christy told me. &ldquo;I could tell that you were somebody who loves a challenge, loves being outdoors. You told us about your children in college. It was an interesting way to meet, and a great way to meet.&rdquo;</p>



<p>It&rsquo;s astounding, how generous some people can be.</p>



<p>&ldquo;I&rsquo;ve been saved many times, maybe not plucked out of river, like you were, but from emotional drowning,&rdquo; Christy said. &ldquo;There was always somebody there for me. That day with you reminds me how I need to be there for others.</p>



<p>&ldquo;I believe everything happens for a reason. We live each day for a reason. Your life was not ready to end that day, and we were there, on the right day, at the right time. Any day you wake up is a day you can do good works.&rdquo;</p>



<p>I wrote down Christy&rsquo;s words. They settled in me. They continue to.</p>



<p>&ldquo;Thank you for saving my life,&rdquo; I said.</p>



<p>&ldquo;We were happy to do it.&rdquo;</p>



<p><em>Michael Bamberger may be reached at&nbsp;<a href="mailto:Michael_Bamberger@Golf.com">Michael_Bamberger@Golf.com</a></em></p>


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<html><body><p class="first">When Thanksgiving comes around, you start thinking about the loved ones in your life. Family, friends, and unfortunately, those who are no longer with us. Little things spark memories. For me, the sight of a headcover brings back my earliest &mdash; and some of my fondest &mdash; memories of golf.</p>



<p>By the time I was born, my grandparents, Bernard (he went by Barney) and Eleanor Reilly, had already fled Long Island taxes and snow-covered winters for the sunshine state. Those days, for New York and New Jersey residents, it wasn&rsquo;t a question of <em>if</em> you would retire in Florida, it was a question of <em>when</em>. For my grandparents, all those years of hard work and raising a family of six had culminated with some much-deserved fun in the sun for their twilight years.</p>



<p>When we&rsquo;d visit, it was something straight out of a <a href="https://golf.com/news/from-kramers-sand-game-to-stan-the-caddie-ranking-the-9-best-golf-moments-in-seinfeld/">Seinfeld</a> episode. A pastel color palette made up the home decor as well as both of my grandparents&rsquo; wardrobes. You wouldn&rsquo;t know new programming existed based off what they watched on TV. If you slept on the sofa&rsquo;s pullout bed, you&rsquo;d wake up feeling like you took a crowbar to the back. Breakfast was before sunrise and dinner was <em>longggg</em> before the sun even thought about setting.</p>



<p>But one of the most vivid memories I have of those Florida visits stems from my grandfather&rsquo;s golf bag. The front door of their home was merely for show. The real entry was through the garage. Near that door sat this leprechaun headcover. From a young age, my eyes were always drawn to it.</p>


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<p>You must remember &mdash;&nbsp;this was pre-Tiger. The trend of <a href="https://golf.com/news/frank-tiger-woods-famous-headcover/">colorful headcovers</a> hadn&rsquo;t exploded yet and manufacturer-issued headcovers were mostly the norm. Wool headcovers that were just a step above socks were still common for the older Florida populace, which made this headcover all the more unique and intriguing. Plus, cooler. When it comes to getting a kid into the game, sometimes this is all it takes to get them hooked.</p>



<p>It worked for me.</p>



<p>My first memories of golf are of my dad watching it on TV and me patiently waiting for him to fall asleep on the couch so I could change the channel. It just didn&rsquo;t do it for me. I lived and breathed baseball and basketball. In my eyes, golf was this old, stale game without enough action.</p>



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<p>It wasn&rsquo;t until I started to play golf that I grew to truly appreciate it, and eventually love it. My first time swinging a club was down in Florida while visiting my grandparents and uncle Brian. Initially, I was too young, so I&rsquo;d have to wait around for my grandfather, uncle Brian, uncle Dennis and dad to get done before going to the driving range. I grew envious of what was going on out there without me.</p>



<p>Why&rsquo;d they always come back so happy yet so frustrated?</p>



<p>My family went down to visit about twice a year throughout most of my childhood. And each time we were welcomed by that leprechaun headcover as soon as we pulled into the garage. There it sat, year after year, surrounded by canned goods with expiration dates that had long since passed.</p>



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              <span class="g-block-image__caption">From left: Brian Reilly, Tim Reilly Sr. (the author&rsquo;s father), Bernard Reilly and Dennis Reilly.</span>
      
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<p>As the years went by, I grew capable of holding my own on the course. My uncle purchased my first set from a garage sale. They were King Snakes, a King Cobra knockoff set that was about a foot too long. It didn&rsquo;t matter &mdash; I was allowed to join them on the course now.</p>



<p>For better or worse, these were the men who taught me how to play the game. I was exposed to words and phrases I had never heard. I learned trees double as bathrooms. Aim at the range cart, wave at the bar cart. They sure did a lot of waving.</p>



<p>My grandfather had a slight hump in his stance. My father inherited that from his dad and I, unfortunately, did the same. When I see a video of myself swinging it&rsquo;s the first thought that comes to mind. I think to myself, &ldquo;Oh my, I&rsquo;m turning into them.&rdquo; And you know what? I&rsquo;m OK with that. (But the day I start kicking my back foot around in my follow-through like my grandfather is when I know I have a real problem on my hands.)</p>



<p>These guys didn&rsquo;t use scorecards. No one was working on a handicap. It was just about being together and escaping reality for a little while on a golf course. In hindsight, I probably took those rounds for granted. That&rsquo;s the problem with youth. The moment is lost on you because you simply haven&rsquo;t lived long enough to realize what&rsquo;s worth cherishing.</p>



<p>Today, as I stare at this little leprechaun, I look back on it all fondly. Three generations out there together. Four-letter words after each topped shot, mulligans that led to the same result, admiring gators from a sometimes-safe distance, adding up beer cans instead of strokes and coming to the realization that my dad and my two uncles grew up to be like their father. I did, too. I didn&rsquo;t realize it then, but I do now.</p>



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              <span class="g-block-image__caption">The author and his father, Tim Reilly Sr., at Pinehurst Golf Resort.</span>
      
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<p>When my grandfather passed away, the only thing I wanted was that headcover. Now I feel very fortunate to have it in my possession. It has no real monetary value. It might not draw a single bid on eBay. Yet my eyes are still drawn to it each time I walk into a room where it resides, and the memories come flowing back. That&rsquo;s invaluable.</p>



<p>I thought about putting it in my bag originally. This little lad is 30-plus years old though. It&rsquo;s not exactly built to handle the modern driver. I decided it was best to keep at home. In my apartment, I have it on display on my mantle. Now and again I&rsquo;ll put it over a bottle to add a little life to my bar.</p>



<p>I did, however, want to keep the tradition going, so I picked up a leprechaun headcover of my own. The same sentiment holds when I pull the big dog out of the bag and see my variation. I did it in my grandpa&rsquo;s honor &mdash;&nbsp;my family&rsquo;s honor, really &mdash;&nbsp;but man, I hope my game ages better than theirs.</p>



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<p>Just a few weeks ago I played golf with my dad and uncle Dennis, a quick round at Middle Island Country Club on Long Island. My dad stepped through his swing in his follow-through. &ldquo;You looked like Barney on that one,&rdquo; my uncle said. It wasn&rsquo;t meant as a compliment.</p>



<p>I covered the <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CHfyFMYloQy/">Masters from home</a> this year. The leprechaun was within my sights. Never in a million years would I have thought I&rsquo;d go from waiting for my dad to fall asleep so I can change the channel to watching the Masters on a half-dozen screens. To think, in a way, my perception of the game all started to change from this headcover.</p>



<p>I&rsquo;m thankful for it, too. The memories the headcover was on-hand for back then, and the memories it brings back to me now. I hope it remains in my family for generations to come.</p>






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