Rory McIlroy, reacting to the death of Grayson Murray, said his thoughts were with his fellow pro’s family.
He then turned introspective.
McIlroy’s comments came Wednesday in a pre-tournament press conference for the Canadian Open, his first public-speaking appearance since Murray’s death was announced Saturday. Murray’s parents said Murray took his own life.
For clarity, here is the question asked to McIlroy, and his answer:
“On such sad news last weekend with Grayson Murray’s passing, when you hear that news, what goes through your mind, and what are the things to kind of take from that and make sure to hold on to?”
“Yeah, I mean, it’s incredibly sad, first and foremost,” McIlroy said, “and I think we’re all thinking of Grayson’s family and hoping that they’re doing OK and getting through this incredibly tough period.
“Yeah, I think, you know, it’s cliche, but it puts everything in perspective. It puts everything — you know, at the end of the day, you know, golf is golf and, yeah, we play it for a living, but it pales in comparison to the things that actually matter in life. That’s a — I’ve had to realize that at times and I’m still sort of working my way through that in terms of not making golf the be-all end-all for me. I think it slaps you in the face when something like that happens last week.
“As I said, it’s incredibly sad and everyone has to remember out here that we go out and we do things that a lot of people can’t, but at the end of the day, we’re still human beings, and we’re vulnerable and we’re fragile, and I think if there’s a lesson for anyone out there it’s just to be kinder to each other.”
McIlroy’s comments come about a year after McIlroy and Murray reportedly got into a dust-up at a meeting at the Canadian Open following the announcement of the deal between the PGA Tour and the Saudi Arabia Public Investment Fund. According to Golf Channel, Murray was critical of Tour commissioner Jay Monahan, McIlroy told Murray to “just play better,” and Murray responded with an obscenity.
In Wednesday’s press conferences, pro Mackenzie Hughes was also asked about Murray. On Sunday, Hughes had written this on social media: “So unbelievably sad and shocking to hear about Grayson. I think he was a little misunderstood and was open about the battles he had faced, but I always felt he had a good heart. And it seemed like he was writing a new chapter in his life. Sending love to those closest to him.”
Here is the question asked to Hughes, and his answer:
“I realize this is a tough one to speak on, but we spoke with Rory about it, and Grayson’s passing is clearly something that many people in the clubhouse are still processing. I thought your posts on social media on Sunday were very kind of eloquent and moving, and I just wonder kind of your thoughts and perspective as the days have gone on.”
